Well Seddit, tonight was my second night out on the pull as it were and it really didn't go great at all.
The night started off well with meeting up with lots of friends and friends of friends from university who happened to be very attractive women and spent lots of time flirting heavily with HB Blonde at the first bar with lots of kino and also chatting to all the other guys and other girls and I was full of confidence and energy.
We then went to the club we were planning on going to and me and 3 girls got there earlier than everyone else and there sat with them talking, using kino and making them laugh and I thought to myself that I was really getting the hang of making it natural to touch the girls and to talk to them as if they were just anyone, even though I had never met two of the three before. I think I need to work on body language a lot more to really see if they were really into me or not but it was fun and I felt really good.
Then it all went down hill. Everyone started to arrive and the club started getting busy and we were on the dance floor, everyone was dancing but the girls I was talking to earlier didn't seem interested at all and I was having a lot of approach anxiety and I was getting mentally, and probably visibly more frustrated and annoyed with myself as my friends seemed to be kiss closing girls left right and centre and I felt very inadequate.
I finally pulled myself together and started using the opener, to girls who were either texting or not dancing much, "What are you doing? You call that dancing?" with a big smile on my face but it wasn't very successful. Most girls seemed to not want to know although one said she was waiting for her friend but had a smile on her face. The only half success was that one HB Blonde kinda went with it and started dancing with me and grinding until my 'friend' started dancing with her and she went off with him. That kinda pissed me off and ruined much chance of game for the rest of the night.
In all I probably approached 5 women but my confidence is now very low. I apologise if this is hard to read but I'm writing this just before bed at 5am.
Any criticism? Thanks.
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