What to do when the friend swoops in?

2011-03-21T01:21:23+00:00

Fuck the friends. Having said this, fighting them off can be like karate fighting a group of street thugs on the street. They are coming in from all directions wanting to knock you out. This last week I had a doozy which I might write up (actually already started) but I had to physically block out her friend (like boxing out in basketball) and literally wagging my finger at the girl telling her she wasn't going anywhere. Then I isolate her and after a while she wants to return to her friends and I was like again blocking her when she tried to get around me and I was saying stuff like, "oh my gosh! I can't believe you are trying to kiss me. Totally stop cause I'm leaving right now!!! I'm not going to put out for you. I'm not that easy girl." This shit went on for literally an hour until I tired but we had tons of fun.

It's all about imposing your reality on the girl and taking away hers. She ultimately wants to stay with you and have fun (her friends reality is, if you are doing it right, boring compared to yours) but her anti-slut defenses will kick in and she will want to bail. Her friends anti-slut group defense will also kick in if they are not totally cool.

You must fight them off.. haha. it's actually kinda fun. this last group was mockingly cussing at me to get away and when "girls, just wanna have fun" song came on, they all pulled together and gestured the shove off sign to me. I was having nothing of it and I would grab my target and then mock them like, "hahah, don't think so." They had a blast but if I wasn't in state I would have been blown out easily.

im_dalegend · 2011-03-20T15:41:21+00:00

it's a tough situation. Seems friends get jealous when they aren't dancing with anyone and want company. My roommate and I once were dancing with two gorgeous girls, and their friend came over and made them BOTH leave.

Title	What to do when the friend swoops in?
Author	objectsinmirror
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	March 20, 2011 2:28 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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