Back in Green So i have laid low for two weeks but on St. Patty's day I went out. A girl I had met online asked me to meet her at an Irish bar. I convinced a girl I worked with to go with me so it wouldn't be too strange me and all online girl's friends.

Aftermath of F-Close I'm keeping this FR concise because the reason I'm sharing it is that I have questions about the aftermath of a successful F-close, which I don't read about often on Seddit. I considered posting to /r/sex but I don't want to bring a bunch of heat to Seddit because all my posts have been here.

How it happened So back to the FR. Me and coworker girl meet online girl (for the first time) and her friends at Irish bar. Online girl, HB7, is pretty drunk. I've texted her on and off for about a month so I'm not expecting much at this point. Anyway, after an hour of chatting, online girl, without my prompting, straight up says that she is not interested in me at all. So I got blown out. To be fair, I wasn't playing the game with her at all at this point, no DHVs, kino or anything that was building attraction. I was just trying to be an AFC nice guy drinking and chatting it up. Didn't work. Coworker girl leaves bar.

WTF A couple drinks later, while I'm leaving the bar, dejected, a cute HB8 walks by me and is muttering about the price of the cover to get in the bar. I am rather drunk, as is she, I say something stupid and swoop in and put my arm around her. Complete stranger. She's cool with it. I'm kissing her within five minutes. I've never done that before.

The kicker is that she is extremely attractive and very flirty and sexual. So long story short, drunkenly, I just escalate hard core and she is all about it. We end up taking a stroll around the downtown area, holding hands, making out, talking dirty to each other, and then she takes me back to her place.

Unprotected sex is not cool So I was drunk. She was drunk. For the first 30-45 minutes of the time at her place I was doing so well. She was begging me to bang her but I kept saying I wouldn't without a condom, even though we both did the oral sex thing. She gets off, I don't. I'm fine with that and we're preparing to go to sleep on her bed. I'm spooning her, we're both naked. Then she starts pushing up against me. And then I went for it. I only went at it for a few minutes and consciously, though I was drunk so who knows, remember making myself stop without getting too excited because I didn't want to accidentally do anything. All of a sudden I realize I have to work in the morning, which I hadn't even considered. I tell her that I have to leave. She seems offended, which is pretty obvious in hindsight. I ask her for her number but she won't give it to me.

Why I'm posting this Okay. I read a lot on Seddit about F-closes. I don't read a lot about the real-life things that come with that. STDs/STIs/possibly pregnancies. First off, I know I fucked up by not wearing a condom. I plan to go to a doctor in three weeks and then again in three months and then again in six months for testing. But here's where I'd like some advice from people who've been in this spot before.

By nature, I'm paranoid. I've talked to my friends about this and it's ranged from one friend making fun of me telling me if it's too good to be true it probably is and she's trying to have my baby to get me on the hook for 18 years of child support and I probably have an STD now. The other friend is telling me that this shit happens all the time and she knew what she was doing and I should just forget about it and not worry about anything until it's clear I need to worry about something.

I feel awful. It's clear to me this was a one-night stand. The girl said as much at one point in the night when I told her how much I enjoyed it and she said just live in the moment and don't expect anything more.

But now, after unprotected sex and her implying that she does not want me to contact her, how should I move on? Besides going to the doctor and getting tested? I don't even think she knows my name.

So how do people handle this? You know, you go on Seddit because you want to be better with women, and then it happens and low and behold you are introduced to all new problems. I've very rarely had one night stands and am not sure what I should/can do, if anything. She didn't want me to contact her after.

It's been a long time coming So "yay" I had sex with an HB8. And I want to say something here. It was awesome. I reached a level of passion that I have never reached before. It is so strange how well we connected and how amazing it was for me. In fact, when I woke up in the morning I felt like a champ and wasn't worried in the least, just felt like I had an amazing night that had given me an experience I've sought for a long time and finally found.

But as the day went on, all the complications started to come into my head. Can someone with experience with one-night stands offer advice? Should I just let it go while being responsible and getting tested? Should I not worry about pregnancy, or should I? How do I even follow up without her contact info? Etc. etc.

I'm glad I had that experience. I'm not glad about worrying about it for months afterwards.

Thank you Thank you for your thoughts Seddit. I need some guidance here.