This is my first FR so let me know what I'm doing wrong in action and also in posting a FR.
So. It has been a LONG night, I'm still drunkish and I am a newcomer to the whole field of seduction studies. First, let me say that I am of the "incorporate your personality into your studies" class of PUA. That is about as far as I have gotten. I have read half of the game and listened to a few minutes of some of the reddit-recommended listening. I generally have no problem with interaction, more with escalation, closure and reinitiating the feelings of the previous interaction. I have no problem getting numbers. It's the next time I see them that's the problem. I have trouble recreating the atmosphere that attracted them to me in the first place. Maybe it's my moody nature. I'm not sure but I'm studying and hopefully writing down my experiences for others to look over will allow me to see some constructive criticism.
I think it's prudent to mention that I'm an American expat living in Amman, Jordan. It doesn't have too much of an effect on what we're talking about given that the people I'm associating with aren't Muslim, nor are the places that I frequent. Just keep it in mind and understand that the forbidden nature of what I'm experiencing makes everything a little bit more 'tasty' and forbidden. Difficult to describe, but, it's spicier.
So. I started off the night with no idea of what was going to happen. Moreover, I started it with no expectations and no plans (which makes for the best nights, I find).
My Nigerian friend, a British dude and I met up at the British Embassy bar for a few pregame drinks (cheap and plentiful) before we headed to a 'Spanish' bar called Salute, where my Nigerian friend was meeting one of his Iraqi students, who was supposedly a stripper in a past life.
Apparently, she had a couple friends waiting for us, which was nice. We got there and there were two girls (an 8 and a 6-7) along with a guy who we inferred was the 8's boyfriend.
The Nigerian guy and I switched off dancing with the 6-7 (We're both great dancers. I have no shyness about admitting that) until I finally had a chat with the 8 and found out that the guy was, in fact, NOT her boyfriend. I immediately got her on the dance floor and started my game. This whole portion of the night isn't that important. I # closed both of them (my friend is taken) and I don't really give a f*ck if they call me or not, which is why I gave them my number and didn't get theirs'. During this whole dancing time, our british friend (who is shy) decided to preempt us by heading to the next party.
After dancing, we headed to meet up with our british friend at a local cafe/bar where a girl was having her birthday and when we got there, we found that our british friend had gone home. After introducing ourselves to the birthday girl and buying a round of birthday shots, my Nigerian friend decided that his 'SURE THING' (ie. girlfriend) was better than this bar. I couldn't deny him so I sent him on his way with a pat on the back and a parting handshake (also a smack on the ass). Now I was on my own, which is generally when I work best.
Sidenote: I tend towards being the mysterious loner, which works well for me. Especially with the more alternative girls. They love the fact that I'm totally on my own here and I have no family interfering in my actions, which is a recurring theme in the middle east.
I chatted up this 6 who was hanging with a bunch of GLBT people having a party. Now, I know that this sounds strange, but I find that L girls at a certain age are mostly never SURE about their orientation and are willing to 'test' it. They are quite receptive to an open mind and a certain degree of 'ignoration'.
I chatted with the 6 and I charmed her and her friends. I didn't ignore the gay guys. They were just as happy to have me there as the girls, which was actually quite nice and helped the girls to trust me. After about two hours, a SUPER drunk 'lesbian' girl stumbled in and sat (read: fell) next to me. I did the "gentlemanly" thing and got her some water & a cigarette, which endeared me to her and her lesbian friends (or so I thought, more later).
I didn't spend all the time chatting to this 6. I mingled and made friends with everyone around us. Moreover, I had a dance with a few girls who were around, which obviously had this 6 eating out of my hand. It was too easy at that point which made me feel bored and I started losing motivation. I didn't really have anything else going on and I was drunk, so I was DTF.
They (20+ people, GLBT and others) decided to bounce to another bar that "You have definitely never heard of". I said sure and we were on our way. I was trying my best at opening kino with a couple les's on the way, which was returned and helped to stroke my ego.
We ended up at this RANDOM bar in the basement of an apartment complex in the middle of nowheresville al nowheresoon. It was empty except for us and the bartender. We had some beers, I did some beatboxing and guitar playing along with my Jordanian friend who is an incredible beatboxer.
All of a sudden. this pierced, tattooed, spicy piece of hot, flaming sex came walking out of the kitchen and said "Last call, bitches."
I was in love.
But I couldn't show it, so I ignored her and just spoke with the guy bartender and the (many) girls I showed up with. We started talking about music (one of my passions), which is when this sex goddess decided to chime in.
We sarcastically flirted for a few minutes (a lot of chemistry at this point) when she challenged me to a performance competition. She sang beautifully (I can't remember the song, I was concentrating on her, not the song) and I jumped in halfway to beatbox (my forte). I managed to fandangle my way (gracefully) out of performing and we just ended up all chilling around the bar. I didn't want to seem too keen on her, so I just listened and chimed in when I had something good to say. I ignored her when I could and stared her straight in the eyes when I felt she was saying something good.
Fast forward half an hour and I'm preparing to leave. I said goodbye to everyone and she came around the bar spouting some sarcastic shit about how worthless I am (teasing, she was) so I ignored her and she went back. After saying all my goodbyes and getting a couple of les's numbers in front of her,
I approached the bar and said "You aren't bad but you're cocky as hell. I can't wait to show you up." She giggled and said "How are you going to do that?"
I said "Oh, I'll find a way..." (Cheesy I know, but I was lost in her tattoos & piercings and I could't form a sentence)
She asked "When will I see you again?" (or something like that) and I started doing the victory dance in my head.
We exchanged numbers and I left with a german girl. I didn't forget to wink and tip my cap at this steel goddess of freedom and lust.
Now, the vibes I got from this girl are good. I'm pretty sure she doesn't have a boyfriend (I didn't check because I didn't want to be let down) and I'm a little unsure about how to continue this. I told her I would be at the bar tomorrow and I will, but she seems WAY cooler than I am, artistically, and I'm not sure how to keep up the chemistry.
HELP ME! I love you guys. This was cathartic and expect many more FR's from me in the future because I party a lot. Inside I'm an insecure sonofabitch but I don't let that show through. To negate it, I come off as cocky, which if she gets to know me, is kinda true.
This is kind of a stream-of-consciousness thing for me so it may not make sense chronologically or emotionally but I'm an open guy and I'm keen on hearing y'all's opinions. Let's do this.
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