After I got cheated on by someone I loved, I decided to heal well by becoming a WAY better version of myself.
I'm a geek. Talking about books, space, technology, life the universe and everything is my thing. Being passionate about this and my writing has always gotten me attention from girls and guys; problem is I didn't knew how to switch from my introverted self into my extroverted self. Most of the time I came on as shy, unassertive and somewhat asexual.
I used to think that all that about being alpha and the game was a waste of time. I cannot be that passive anymore!
I thought that if a girl likes me, she should like me for who I am. This thought was later essential to the epiphanies I now have gone through.
So I began my introduction to the seduction arts after deciding that one of my first improvements should be getting laid a lot. I think most people begin like this, I mean, everybody wants to get laid right? I certainly do, and at first I didn't believed it but girls CERTAINLY do as well. My idea was essentially, I should have a lot of fun and let's see if in the way I find a girl that is worthy. This would never had happened without the kind of breakup I had, which in hindsight I'm grateful for.
After reading the theory a lot, I started experimenting with kino, eye contact and the usual newbie things. I then discovered inner-game and this is when results really came through. I started my journey into turning natural. AFC forever begone. Without much further ado, this is my first field report. Certainly neither my first results nor my first closes, but it happened yesterday and I've never done one before.
Dressing well is a huge confidence booster. Being an exchange student, which is called Erasmus, in Madrid I decided I had to dress with something that screams where I'm from, or rather, that I'm not from here. Its amazing what boots can do for curious people, instead of opening you get opened. Social proof goes through the roof when you are talking to a group of people you just met and you have everybody laughing and pointing out the awesomeness of your clothes.
Erasmus "botellones" are great, you get to meet people from everywhere and drink in awesome parks. Everyone is open to meet new people and make contacts, its almost easy mode. I met a girl from Finland [8.5], quite nice. After escalating kino a bit the IOI's were obvious, I wanted to close, however, I got pulled by new met friends into drinking and singing. Didn't see her for the rest of the night. By this moment, a couple of guys are noticing the pull I have and start commenting on it. "This guy's confidence is amazing! He just goes and talks to whoever he wants" followed by cheering and general ego boosting.
By walking to and from circles of old and new acquaintances I bumped into two french girls [9,8], started chatting and kinoing with both, it was interesting to see the sudden competition they broke into. Feels great to be the prize and you get to observe the subtle insecurities on each one. I liked them both so I fb-closed with both, the more assertive girl was the first to ask me to add her to Fb, followed by the other. I'm meeting them both today in another botellon, I will go for an f-close with the assertive [9] gal.
I'm having a lot of fun, and after all the reading and experimenting with seduction, inner game has been the best game for starting. After you build confidence and just let go and have fun you become a magnet, not only girls but a real social magnet. However, my goal is having more f-closes so tonight I will have fun AND be more direct, a k-close as a minimum. I have been lately only # or fb closing and I'm not ok with this. AA is bad but having trouble after already escalating and getting massive IOI's is just frustrating. I think it's something like the kid in the candy store, so many to chose from so you end without any candy.
I'll come back and let you guys know how I did tonight.
Seddit is a great community! Is about time I did this FR :D
Any comment, tip or relevant advice is deeply appreciated!
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