Hey Seddit, like many of you I'm looking to redefine myself, I am sick of being just another guy at a club or a party, and I am sick of having trouble with women. I read the game about 8 months ago and in the last few weeks I have decided my social mediocrity is going to end. I started reading magic bullets and some of the other recommended readings on this forum along with some of the relevant post from users for where I am at as an AFC. I am going Coachella this weekend so hopefully I will have a field report when I get back, but we will see, I going to coachella to party my face off and have the best weekend ever, and not so much to try and pick up chicks. Though what I have learned so far will be put to use. Now for a serious question. When you talking with an HB is it best to maintain strong eye contact? I have trouble with this because I have hearing loss so pretty much ever time I'm ever talking with someone I end up watching their lips, lip reading, so I fully understand what their saying? I have tendency miss hear things, even with hearing aids and then saying outright stupid because I got the context what was said wrong. This little problem has been an excuse of for so long for I have trouble communicating and it has ruined many a conversation with girls. THIS ENDS NOW. Do you think it would be possible for me to turn this into an advantage?

Hopefully this decision to become a much more confident male is going to be a turning point in my life.