Hi I'm selux. I'm 22 with a fairly chill demeanor putting the things I learn here on seddit into use down in the sultry south. I'm a good looking likable guy and I dress well.

Went to a show with a college crowd and watched some friends of mine perform. I was on the second floor of this bar, leaning over the balcony as I watched the band below. There was maybe 50 people or so in the building, and 10 of them were upstairs with me, so it wasn't all that crowded.

To my left I see a hb8, sitting by herself in a chair watching the stage. I sit down next to her and ask "This seat taken?" She grins and says "no no one's there it's open." We talk about whatever for about 15 mins, she's very receptive and is laughing, asking me questions, lots of direct eye contact, we're vibing well, she ask's me for my name first. At one point I told her I was an underwear model and that she's already seen my junk in magazines, she bought it.

Everything is going fine, she seems to be into me, but this one thing ruined it. Well it was actually several things. Her friend kept approaching us, the hb8 introduced us, she seemed friendly to me, but she kept trying to pull my target away from me and into other activities. The first time it was "Hey you and me (the hb8) are about to play a game of pool against dude 1 and dude 2 Then 10 mins later shes back "I just won at a game of pool!" (I hi fived her here) "We're about to go downstairs" Eventually dragging the hb8 away. She outstretches her hand to shake mine, asks for my name again, I correctly remember hers, which impressed her, and says she's sure she'll meet me downstairs at some point. If I was going to number close, that would've been the ideal time to do so, in retrospect.

I eventually make it downstairs, watch the rest of the bands play, don't see the hb8 again all night until I go back upstairs and order a drink. She's in the same chair as earlier but talking to some other dude. I decide that's that and proceed to chat up the bartender.

I'm thinking her friend was trying to set up the hb8 with some other guy she was playing pool with, maybe a boyfriends friend?

Should I have made an effort to befriend the other dudes?