How do I escalate with a girl who's kind of shy and not "touchy"?

l3fth4nd · 2011-05-17T06:21:50+00:00

I would assume the same as any other girl. Keep going until she denies you. Laugh it off, then try it again in a little bit.

Shy girls are total freaks in bed in my experience, they're really sexually repressed so if you can get her to let loose she'll go nuts. She'll pretend not to want you to make moves, secretly she craves it.

2011-05-17T08:19:12+00:00

Try posting this to r/askseddit.

Nexism · 2011-05-17T09:19:22+00:00

You're supposed to be initiating kino. AskSeddit this.

2011-05-17T12:42:23+00:00

Social calibration (gauge responses). Plausible deniability (laugh it off). Make kino part of your personality (don't be creepy by only touching her arms and shoulders). Also, askseddit this.

rblacksun · 2011-05-18T01:34:55+00:00

I can help you with this....

Humans are easy to trick...usually in order to escalate with require trust and whatnot...but our brains has trouble determining who is who...meaning let's say you love your mom a lot and your earliest memory with her is her baking you chocolate chip cookies with bunner butter and she gave you the dough to eat it... Let's say some girl does the same thing to you..I am willing to bet that you will start relating the affection that you feel to your mom to the affection you feel for this girl ( I realize its a bad example..seeing how you plan on sticking your penis on this girls vagina...but understand my point) replace someone in her life

iamkiko · 2011-05-17T13:06:54+00:00

Start with a sexual frame. A few sexual jokes here and there till she gets into that mindset. Remember, shes feeling what youre feeling. Set up the bait and lure her in with the kino. This is what distinguishes the sex-worthy guys from the friends.

D3l7a3ch0 · 2011-05-17T21:58:01+00:00

move on

Title	How do I escalate with a girl who's kind of shy and not "touchy"?
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Date	May 17, 2011 6:18 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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