I'm seeing this girl and we've been dating for over 8 months now. Whenever we go on a night out, and dancing, she says later on that guys on the dancefloor tell her to cut me loose and that she can do better. Just for visuals, I'm 6'6, fairly muscular, been training for years and OK looking, I get called cute a lot and this girl thinks I'm good looking too.

Even her own friend who she's close to says that she doesn't understand why she is seeing me and that she can do better. I really don't care because I'll always have other options but I like fucking this girl and I'm not sure if people saying this to her spins her hamster and makes her feel like she's aiming lower (reverse hypergamy).

How would you avoid being seen as lower SMV? I thought being 6'6 and muscular and having my life in order would make this something that doesn't happen but apparently not.