Text game without the bullshit

nycprowl · 2011-07-07T05:17:32+00:00

TL;DR:

Only ask for phone # if you genuinely want to hang out with them.
Don't tell her excuses to get her phone #, do it because you're attracted, and just get it. She knows why anyway.
Flakes happen. Don't spend forever trying to figure out if one keeps flaking for legitimate reasons. Just let them go.
3 strike flake rule. If she flakes 3 times, move on.
Text soon after getting her # "Hey Sara, nice to meet you!" After 24 hours or so, start a little text conversation to build some comfort.
Texting sucks. Use it only for organizing dates for the most part. don't get too fancy or witty, it's easy to misinterpret over text.
When you guys go on a date, don't freak if she's late. Doesn't mean she's testing you, more likely she is unorganized. If she doesn't apologize at all, or if it's a repeating pattern, drop her.

Finally: Girls flake. Don't stress over it.

notlurkinganymoar · 2011-07-07T18:23:59+00:00

This is very good.

rkg-pua · 2011-07-07T16:04:09+00:00

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Title	Text game without the bullshit
Author	rmbarnes
Upvotes	35
Comments	4
Date	July 7, 2011 12:50 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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