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There's so much good stuff in this list, I found it really helpful. Great info for maintaining interest & keeping attraction going. (16 rules...)

elmcityalpha

July 10, 2011

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Title	There's so much good stuff in this list, I found it really helpful. Great info for maintaining interest & keeping attraction going. (16 rules...)
Author	elmcityalpha
Upvotes	2
Comments	1
Date	July 10, 2011 9:20 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iluhm/theres_so_much_good_stuff_in_this_list_i_found_it/
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[–]elmcityalpha[S] 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Before I read this list, I understood how to pick someone up but after the initial hookup, I'd start to act attached and totally beta. Some key points from the list that I found enlightening:

The Golden Ratio. Only give her 2/3 of what she's giving you. She sends three texts, you send two. She seems interested, you act SLIGHTLY less interested.
Flirt with other girls. I used to be the type of guy who ONLY had eyes for the girl I was with. By continuing to game other girls, you keep your skills sharp & play on women's natural jealousy and tendency to want what other women want.
No PDA (or very sparingly) Make her work for your attention. As much as you may want to touch her every second you are together, show restraint and make her crave your touch.
Ignore her beauty. Her beauty is her power over you. Disarm that power by being nonreactive to her beauty. Compliment her when it is applicable but don't let her attractiveness turn you into mush and don't be constantly complimenting her.
Don't be afraid to lose her. Too many guys aren't bold because they don't want to offend the girl they are with or lose her by upsetting her. Set the frame and don't supplicate to her. Women are attracted to men who are in control so don't let her run the show because you're afraid to lose her.