So my first real success from game was this cute skinny HB8 that I brought home from dubstep night at the local club. We fucked 3 times the first night we were together and had a solid month of hanging out a lot and having tons of great sex.

Now it's been about a month and a half and she got distant after I got a tiny bit too affectionate, which gave her the idea that I want to be bf/gf instead of just casual. I don't want more than casual fun but she has been avoiding me for the last week and I'm pretty much ready to NEXT her. I don't overtext and yet she doesn't get back to me until hours and hour later if at all when she used to respond quickly or have a legit reason when it takes a few hours to get back to me.

I see her drifting and I have an attitude of abundance so I will not be chasing her around and only seeing her on her terms. It's time to move on but I'm hoping to do it in a way thats going to make her want to fuck casually in the future. When I see her she is still very affectionate and we have amazing sex so Im thinking i could def turn this into an occasional booty call thing but right now we are exclusive and I need to call it off so I don't get all oneitus-y on her.

I was thinking of saying "this was fun but I'm just not feeling it anymore" but I don't want to play into the idea that I wanted to be bf/gf because that's the frame I believe she has me in. Do you think that's effective or is there something better I could say to seem like I want to end it but it's not a big deal?

EDIT 1: I just called it off.

EDIT 2: Update on what ended up happening