For the nice guys who have been friendzoned out there, this one is for you...

puaCurveBall · 2011-07-18T23:00:31+00:00

Totally disagree... this article is affirming they are somehow in the right, supplicating to their females friends and having no drive of their own.

"Nice guys" are the sad, depressing results of a generation of men raised by women. They are a group meant to be educated, not revered.

chumpta · 2011-07-18T21:23:45+00:00

I CANNOT LOOK OF DISAPPROVAL HARD ENOUGH ಠ_ಠ

elmcityalpha · 2011-07-19T01:52:54+00:00

Was this article posted as a big lost list of examples of what NOT to do? It seems to be the polar opposite of everything seddit is about.

2011-07-19T06:57:44+00:00

lolol. this was horrible and funny at the same time. i can imagine a bunch of nice guys being reassured that girls will eventually like them. the telling nice guys to wait just a little bit longer, while the girls are out fucking the guys who aren't wimps. maybe when they're used up, out of their prime, they'll find some nice guy provider for the rest of their lives..

the real title should be lament for the nice guys

remgibson · 2011-07-20T17:44:56+00:00

Yeah, this is beta poison...j'disapprove

2011-08-05T01:24:24+00:00

There is a HUGE disconnect in this author's logic. I think the main problem is that women don't know how to describe what they want and popular media hasn't helped. By categorizing males into "nice guys" and "assholes", it fails to recognize the gray area in between, the "real men".

"Nice guys" - Supplicating, needy, unassertive and selfish. They think they'll get the girl by not risking rejection and actually saying "Hey I think you're cute, let's hang out!". We'll call them "Selfish Pricks".
"Real Men" - Assertive, self-confident, considerate, understands rejection is part of life and that to get great girls, he'll have to put his ego on the line. We'll call these guys "Real Men"
"Assholes" - Assertive, seemingly self-confident, and inconsiderate. These guys are jerks because they have some internal conflict that want to hide or overcompensate for something by being douchey. They're still "Assholes"

In short we have "Nice Guys" aka "Selfish Pricks" who are needy and fake consideration, "Real Men" who are considerate, but don't let girls use them for every whim, and "Assholes" who are still just that - assholes.

TL;DR - Society has incorrectly categorized guys into "nice" and "assholes". Nice guys are needy and selfish and will never get laid. Assholes are douchey b/c they're insecure. The in-between lies with "Real Men" who are considerate and don't let themselves get walked on - this is what I believe seddit is 'bout.

Frankocean2 · 2011-07-18T20:51:02+00:00

Girls want nice guys....

They just want nice guys with BALLS.

The thing is guy tend to over do it and start to behave like douchebags.

Title	For the nice guys who have been friendzoned out there, this one is for you...
Author	miceriot
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	July 18, 2011 8:10 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/it4c8/for_the_nice_guys_who_have_been_friendzoned_out/
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