Can't seem to understand IOIs from a girl

puaCurveBall · 2011-08-02T06:46:43+00:00

You really can't mess things up by escalating. If she isn't up for it, then escalating will only tell you the truth.

Man up, go for it.

TheSpiffySpaceman · 2011-08-02T16:54:42+00:00

The differentiating factor seems to be her friend. She has seems to have some confidence issues either in herself or you because she seemed to be shy to talk to you around her friend.

But yeah, just go for it.

2011-08-03T14:13:14+00:00

First sentence I knew, Friendzoned. Stop contacting her, when you see her acknowledge her but don't make any effort to communicate with her. Become emotionally distant from her. She will come to you eventually and then you have the confidence that she is seeking you out, you have the social upperhand ,the chooser seat, and you can't come off as creepy. If she tries to be all over you at a party, go for it.

2011-08-10T16:08:30+00:00

She stuck your hands down her pants and you still aren't sure that she wanted you to escalate? Short of giving you a written invitation you aren't going to get much more direct than that.

She was probably cold to you the next time because she felt completely rejected by you. If she strips naked are you going to assume that she did it because it is too warm in the room and ask her if she wants the air conditioning turned colder?

Title	Can't seem to understand IOIs from a girl
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Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	August 2, 2011 4:55 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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