Basically I've been doing really well with this girl, and we just hooked up for the first time, but I'm about to leave for 4 months. I want to be able to keep this attraction, since she will be visiting home (where I'm going) a few times, and I'll be back up there a few times during the 4 month period. I assume we may be hooking up throughout this, but if attraction is kept up throughout this time I could see myself dating her when it's all done. So my question is what's the best way to keep up attraction over a distance, while still being alpha and not messaging/calling her all the time? Just space them out?