Insightful analysis on why women are mum about having one night stands.

frogma · 2011-08-04T04:47:48+00:00

I basically agree.

What I used to do, when I was more of a player (and this had nothing to do with seduction techniques), was I'd quickly establish my value, get the girl wanting me, and when it came to sex I'd just get lovey-dovey and imply that I wanted a relationship. It worked literally every time I did it right- there were plenty of times where it backfired, but it was usually because I didn't have enough value in her eyes.

That's manipulative and shitty- and led to plenty of drama- but it's similar to the comfort-building aspect of seduction. Girls want the Disney prince to sweep them off their feet and make it feel like everything "just happened." Unless you're Brad Pitt, that isn't so easy to pull off. What is fairly easy though, is to connect with the girl emotionally and get her comfortable with you- and then get her comfortable enough to leave with you- and then get her comfortable enough to fuck you. In doing so, you're essentially showing these "boyfriend" characteristics in a shorter timespan (unless you go in hot and heavy and sexualize the whole interaction).

In the end though, I still firmly believe that girls are just as open to sex (and "shorter-term" shit) as we are- they mainly just have a ton of social pressures to deal with. And I think those pressures probably stem from instinctual, evolutionary responses- like this guy's saying- but the origin is pretty irrelevant. It's just important to know that it happens. All it means for us is that we have to build comfort and give her plausible deniability- and know how to handle cockblocks, AMOGs, ASD, and LMR.

Title	Insightful analysis on why women are mum about having one night stands.
Author	heckz
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	August 4, 2011 12:40 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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