This is a bit of an update from some questions/reports I submitted yesterday.

I went on a bike ride with an HB 8 yesterday afternoon. I just met her the week before through some other cyclist friends. On the ride everything went well, we talked a lot but there was ZERO kino. I teased her on the ride, came up with a goofy pet name I could tease her with. I also suggested she come back to my place for popsicles after the ride which we ended up doing.

We ate popsicles, talked about donuts and agreed we should go get donuts at night when they would be fresh. I also tried to convince her to come see Planet of the Apes with me, she was leery of the idea, but said she would watch a trailer when she got home. I thought I had the movie and donuts in the bag. Also we have some intense fucking eye contact while talking, 3+ seconds for sure. It seems my spell is working.

She texts me when she gets home from the bike ride "I dont think I can do the apes." So I reply "I think you are messing up. you should come watch a different movie and get donuts with me."

She doesn't say anything for like 3 hours, until it is 11 pm. I hold my ground and don't text or call, even though I am starting to get pissed that she isn't getting back to me.

Finally around 11 she texts me and invites me out to a bar with her and her other 2 girl friends. I consider acting like I was busy doing other things, but none of my other friends were doing shit, and well fuck being "alpha" I wanted to have fun. I get to the bar and we play dumb drinking games, I finally get to kino escalate. The bar is cold and I am teasing her arms for having goosebumps all over them. She would say "omg i'm so cold, look at my arms!" and I would rub them and call her a lizard. She starts grabbing my hands to show me how cold her hands are. Also more fucking intense eye contact.

Eventually we leave the bar, her two friends leave first so it is just me and the HB. Immediately when we start walking on the street she is making me squeeze hold her hands to warm her up. I told her to put her hands in my armpits and we have a bit of a laugh about that when she does it.

She is being really flirty and happy on the walk, and we decide to hop the fence of a pool for a swim. We both strip down and swim around naked for like 30 minutes. I grab her and start making out with her in the deep end. I cavemanned her here just a bit and I think it took her off guard. She responded well to the kiss but from then on out she seemed just a tad more guarded. We got out of the pool and freezing our asses off decide to go back to my place a couple blocks away.

We watch adventure time, smoke, and I try to kino but am not getting any happy responses any more. We get real tired from smoking and its 3 in the morning so I walked her home. I probably should have cavemanned for a kiss at her door but I fumbled. She did say before she went inside, "this was fun I want to do it again, lets get donuts next time."

Wishing I would have sealed the deal a bit more. And hoping I dont fuck it up in the future. Any general advice on when to call? what to do with her?