How do I get laid in France?

TofuTofu · 2011-08-14T21:48:31+00:00

I don't know much about France (other than a few French girls I've hooked up with), but good game is good game anywhere.

Put yourself out there - don't waste time in your room studying. Make the best of your time studying abroad (I studied abroad when I was your age and it completely changed the course of my life). Make tons of friends, try new things, go OUT a lot. Join some clubs, drink good wine and have fun.

Don't focus on getting laid. Focus on having the time of your life. The women will follow.

xrg2020 · 2011-08-15T10:20:51+00:00

This is super relevant to my interests. 21 year old American student spending a semester in France starting this Thursday. Though, I don't speak French.

I had two friends study in France the past two years. They both said its incredibly hard to hook up with French girls. Apparently they want almost nothing to do with Americans.

warpcowboy · 2011-08-15T20:37:40+00:00

I didn't even use my underwhelming grasp of French when I studied near Versailles. I initially tried, but fellow youth (especially girls) were more interested in speaking/practicing English with me.

Girls tend to be easier when you're abroad due to the stranger in a strange land phenomenon no matter where you are. You tend to be more adventurous and take more social risks. Also, international students are already pre-qualified to be cool, so you're mingling with a cool crowd that's generally open-minded and hungry to explore.

Can't think of anything that stood out about French girls, in particular. As I said to another person in this thread, a cool foreign guy with personality is always exotic. Nationality just seems to change the low-hanging conversational fruit. I think French youth have maybe a little more of a critic's sentiment of America, but that really just translates into an increased frequency of fun convos about misconceptions. Some people seem to expect you to have a persecution complex and unconditionally defend the American government while ripping off your shirt to expose your sweet American Eagle tattoo that's holding a tattered, war-torn American flag with the words "Cuz Freedom Aint Free" spelled out in bullet holes across your clavicle, but they immediately lose interest when they find out that you break their view of the world.

Being an American abroad is really easy. Everyone already consumes a bunch of American culture, so you're really easy for them to talk to. The night I moved in to my dorm in Prague, my French roommate and I were having a smoke on the balcony. The first topic of conversation? Neil Strauss' The Game (He asked me if I'd read it).

huhuh11 · 2011-08-14T22:50:03+00:00

Hey,

Montpellier is a southern-France student city so you as far as weather and target pool are concerned you should be ok. You say you speak fluent French, how is that ? If you have the English/American accent I'm pretty sure it DOES have some effect on girls so that gives you some bonus. Many Americans are a bit too proud of their country in a way, so it's obviously OK to tell stories about your state/country but try not to sound tooooo cocky :) If you need an opener : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4ZO2FD4pNA all of his videos are hilarious and done in Montpellier as he's from here. He's pretty well known in France i would say.

2011-08-14T23:26:31+00:00

Hi, New Zealander living in southern France for the last 2 years. Don't be overly keen, they can take a lot of work. That being said, there's some quite good clubs around which can be awesome pull spots, and you don't have to think about girls recognizing your game. I've seen very little solid game around, and a lot of AFC behavior, so even with moderate game you should be ok. Also, in montpellier there is a lot of non-french students, i had my first f-close there with a sweedish girl.

unoriginalsin · 2011-08-15T02:00:39+00:00

Go to France.
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Get laid.

Tryingalways · 2011-08-15T21:38:39+00:00

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2011-08-15T23:38:57+00:00

Learn some french(try downloading some pimsleur) this would get you enough language skills to get you to speak basic stuff very quickly

be 'playfull' and enjoy. Don't do anything awkward most french girls like chilled guys that know the right way to tease a women.

n0ggy · 2011-08-14T23:06:47+00:00

Being French I can assure that if you think of French women as easy-laid sluts, you won't be guetting any.

The fact that you are in good shape and speaking French is a good plus though. To us, an American isn't really exotic nor charming, but speaking French can solve the "charming" problem.

You'll have to go to the girls rather than expecting them to come at you just because you are American. If you focus on talking to girls only, you'll miss plenty of them. Remember that guys know girls.

I might have got it wrong, but the title of your message is screaming "OK I'M AMERICAN, HOW DO I GET THOZ FRENCH BITCHES ? HEARD THEY'RE SLUTS !" If that's the way you're thinking, you don't stand a chance.

Good luck if you're a good guy.

ihaveabu · 2011-08-14T22:42:13+00:00

go out, have fun. meet a lot of people, hang out with them. be fun and social.

as long as you do the above... you'll get laid anywhere

bodeezy · 2011-08-15T00:56:22+00:00

TEFAN!?!?

not-a-jerk · 2011-08-15T09:30:41+00:00

I spend 4-6 months of the year on the road, and have recently written about my advice on finding sex on the road. It's more focused on when you're moving around regularly (I change cities every week or two), but you might find it useful.

Good luck!

Title	How do I get laid in France?
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