Edit: Please, if you downvote, explain why to me? I'm trying to learn from this you know...

** My main question ** Is this girl mentally stable?

I try to put a lot of detail into my field reports. Sorry it's so long

Background Last Saturday (a week before yesterday) I met a HB8 in a group of friends. I detail that night in an earlier field report. Thursday we met to hang out.

Start of the date I go to her apartment to pick her up a little after 7:30. We start with some general small talk, "how was your day" and stuff like that. I'm careful to watch my body language and voice tone/speed, but I know she's in to me already so I just let it flow. A lot of teasing. As the first activity I take her to a smoke shop because I need a new pipe. I do some funny stuff like asking the employees where the crack pipes are, and I get her to help me pick out a pipe.

Afterwards I take her to starbucks and get myself a coffee (she didn't want one). Then I go park and pack a bowl. We smoke a little, lots of joking and definite IOIs (for instance, extended hand touching after a high five). After a while I ask if she wants to go in the bookstore.

We mess with each other a little bit in some of the book sections. When we walked past the diet section I told her she should stay there while I go look at some other books. Eventually we get to the psychology section and I do "The Cube." She was absolutely amazed by it. Now she wants to go sit down.

A little bit of weirdness We sit down in a corner of the store and she just completely opens up to me. Stuff about taking medications, crazy feelings, lots of personal stuff. I'm a little worried because along with the crazy things she was telling me, her cube was the weirdest one I've heard yet. The shit was flashing black for brief periods of time, but otherwise transparent. When it was transparent you still couldn't see inside, because the inside was a bunch of reflective surfaces (like a diamond).

During the conversation I offer her advice and try to steer it to positive things. The whole night she's saying things like "my stomach hurts" or "my head is killing me." I ask if she wants me to take her home but she says no. We keep talking, but eventually the store closes and we have to leave.

** Back to her place ** A couple of friends had invited me out to play pool, but she wants to go home because of her stomach and she has to get up early in the morning for school. We talk a lot on the car ride home, some general stuff but some deeper stuff too. I'm connecting with her a lot, but I'm keeping good kino at the same time. Touched her arms a lot and her legs some.

When we get to her house we are in the middle of some good conversation, but I'm supposed to go off to chill with my friends so it ends abruptly. Get a hug, but she goes inside and I drive off. Before I leave the neighborhood I text her, "That ended to abruptly, I felt like we weren't done talking." She responds, "Do you still wanna hang?" I don't respond and just go back to her place.

Inside we sit on the couch, a lot of kino here. I'm touching her arms, legs and hair, but watching her body language carefully. I'm sure to match IOI's and IOD's. A lot of push pull going on, but she's having a good time. We talk for a while, I show her some jiu jitsu moves (intimate kino there).

Somehow we start talking about politics. And we don't agree. I don't argue with her, but she is very adamant about her views. After a little bit I try to end the line of convo and say, "Look, we're both smart people. We're not going to agree, our brains just work differently. Society needs both types of people equally." To which she suggests that society doesn't need my type. I tell her "Society needs me more than it needs you." She seems hurt, but I shrug. Then the bitch says,

"You're right"

lol wut? We get back to lighthearted conversation, she's playing with my hair so I start grabbing her hair and kind of pulling it a little, massaging the back of her head a bit. We cuddle some and then she asks if I want to stay the night. We go to her bedroom, where I escalate the hell out of it.

We start making out, grinding, I eventually get her to take off her bra and get her pants most of the way down. I fingerbang her a ton, but she won't let me fuck. I'm cool about it, I don't sulk but I do freeze her out a bit and let her start to initiate the contact, then try to escalate again. She plays with my junk some, but yeah. We're up til 6:30 when I have to leave for work. She really wants me to stay. I can't obviously, but I agree to go get a haircut from her around 1:30 (I'm was taking a half day at work anyways).

I get the haircut, she wanted to hang more but I left on a road trip with the guys for the weekend. We're scheduled to hang out tomorrow (monday) night. I know I'll be able to f close, but should I? She seems a little unstable, but at the same time she's cool and fun to talk to. Pretty clever and funny sometimes. From my story, do you guys think she's unstable? I want to leave her better than I found her.