Was feeling entirely in state after having fun at the bar with some buds... Walking out, and saw a group of girls sitting at the bar.

Many times I am in a very logical/antisoical/anti-fun mood. And it requires a lot of effort to deal with people. Other times I am totally into being fun/talking to people/etc (I refer to this as "state', though I know that term is often tossed around). At this particular moment, I was definitely the latter (though if you guys have tips for getting for getting into 'state' please share!).

Things were kind of ablur as I wasn't thinking as much about what I was doing but more of just going... I ran up and said something to the effect of "hey girls ! how are you guys", etc, blah blah. With a very fun energy. The energy/vibe was really what mattered here - very fun/playful/excited (though not too much as it needs to be calibrated). Four girls - 5, 5, 7, 8. One of the 5's turns and mentions it's her birthday.

I respond with something like "omg that's so great", give her a big hug and ask her how it feels to be 21 (I always ask girls this on their birthdays.. it goes over ok). i am very nice to all the girls, of course (especially the bday girl / less attractive ones). her friends join in, and we all talk/flirt. my friends mostly stand and watch (3 of them) but some get a little involved...

The girls start taking photos of us/them. They take a pic of one of the 8's (actually the one I didn't go for). One of the 5's reaches and grabs one of her boobs. I shout "man I love boobies!" and grab the other one for the photo (normally, i wouldn't do this kind of thing but since they were loving me so much, having so much fun, and the energy was high, i got away with it. woot woot! admittedly, i wasn't 100% positive what the reaction would be, but figured it seemed fun so i should give it a swing haha!).

A few minutes later there's a lull/pause (always need to kill those pauses FAST in group settings/attraction. best if detected before they happen) and I realize I need to pick a girl, so I say "OK now I need to announce my next ex-wife" and move my finger around and select the other 8 (arbitrary decision). I then grab her and move her next to me, and ask my buddy to marry us. He does a short ceremony. I then quickly ask him to divorce us. He does a short ceremony.

There's some back and forth, standard roleplaying stuff "you can keep the kids, I hated those brats, I just want my CDs)", etc. Then I pull her aside and start with the "baby, I miss you, sucks the bedroom went cold. I think we can reconcile things. Even though you were so wrong to me", etc. etc. I throw in some "never ,we can't get back", etc. (standard push-pull) with some backturns etc. Finally, I'm like 'no, we're through. you wronged me in so many ways.!'

Then, i start talking to one of the 5s (Takeaways). i get very flirty with her, hold her close, tell her she's so pretty/cute/she'll make a man so happy some day/hope she has a great bday, etc. just trying to have fun myself and give her a great time/bday.

Then I grab the ex-wife (8) we start dancing as I tell her we're having a romantic moment after breaking up. I dance her away from the group (the fake/cartoonish tango is cash money for this)... we're fairly isolated...Her buying temp is high and I go in for the makeout.

It works (I wouldn't have been surprised if she turned a cheek, but the escalation was fast yet steady so this was a not-insane outcome; though if she rejected, i would have ignored it, kept on flirting with her and tried again soon). We make out for a bit. I pull back first (always end it first) and follow up with "omg i can't believe you seduced me like that. you're such a bad influence". i think it's important to flip the script asap so she can't frame me as the chaser... somewhere in there i put my hands on her hips, looked down, told her she was sexy, grabbed her ass with both hands said it was nice, etc. btw it's been maybe 10-15 minutes in the interaction.

she then goes on to tell me she's stone-sober and DDing (ahh amazing the shit that's possible with the right fun vibe). we chat a bit - build up a little rapport. i don't do a great job of qualifying here but give it a meager attempt.. and make plans to meet up at a specific time later that week (i like to push slightly for a specific day so they feel more committed - am not positive it increases conversion, but i am testing the theory...).

we exchange numbers and i bounce. we text a bit back and forth, she commits to a day2, then flakes. i wait a week or so, and she is wishy-washey so i tell her she doesn't seem very interested and suggest we pass ways. she doesn't really disagree that much, and i just ignore. i'm pretty sure she's nexted, though i may send her a random text in a while.

i guess the thing here is i don't chase girls too much for the follow-up; i find they're either excited to see me or they aren't and are a pain to get out (and the ones who are difficult to get out generally are hard to deal with/doesn't go anywhere). also, nexting-fast forces me to meet more girls, which has the benefit of learning, more experience, etc.

did well

fun vibe

shamelessly executed

isolated very well

to improve

must qualify!!!!

there needs to be rapport to kill flakeage

make-outs are fun and make your intent known, but may decrease day2 conversion... i wonder how good of an idea it was to do that... same with all the super-heavy physicality/ass grabbing/sexy-talk... (meh was mostly just amusing myself so happy in the end thou!)