Yes, it may very well be a strand of One-itis she was my gf for a while and then she left me for another guy then we sort of started hanging again (FWB mostly) but now it's happening again, she's acting the exact same way as before when she left me and I realize this, I'm aware of how stupid this is and I'm actively talking to women trying to get her off my mind, but I just seem to fail and go back to think about her when I am alone or with nothing to do. My game is not really very good but I've been working on it, I've begun to work out, lost some weight, getting out there and talking to women but she still comes back to my mind...other than "just get over with it" is there anything you guys could recommend me to do? I know how stupid and pathetic this is but I'm really struggling and I just want to get over with it...