Here's a thought! Think about a stranger that you have talked to...maybe last week. Now, given that you haven't gotten their number or somehow kept in contact with them, do you remember their name? Their face?

The reason I ask this, is because unless you actively try to remember it, or unless they've made a really strong impression on you, you probably forgot about them. Hell, you probably forgot half of the things you did yesterday!

The reason I'm saying this here, is because nobody will remember anything that you do, unless it significantly impacts them. This relates to approaches directly. Here's how:

  1. You approach and you bomb. You and the girl will forget.

  2. You approach and you make a good impression. You keep in contact and you've gained a potential suitor.

  3. You approach and you completely fuck up. Guess what? Both you and her will still forget, as long as you don't dwell on it!

Unless you do something REALLY vile (I think we're all decent people here so I'll rule that out) or we do something really amazing, that girl is NOT going to remember you.

And that's all the more reason to get out there, approach, fuck up, and have a damn good time! You won't remember the bad moments and you'll love and remember the good ones. :)