So my wife and I are venturing into an open relationship, after being together for 12 years since high school, passion gone, staying together to keep a steady family for our child, yada yada. I needed to get out of town and get a bit of female companionship, and ended up talking up a high school fling and going for a visit today. Anyways, we shared stories about our heartbreak and life, flirting, having fun, a bit of kino, then feeling it, I grab her arm and ask "do you want to kiss me"...she says "fuck no" (sarcastically), then comes in for the kiss. We ended up going for a dirty swim, then getting into foreplay in the truck...skor right? Problem is I don't know what to do now...this girl is a friend and I don't want either of us to get hurt when I'm not in any shape for a relationship right now. We match up on so many levels, and I could see myself falling for this girl. I'm so afraid of getting oneitis when I feel like I'm just starting out! /venting