Seddit, my first time going to the club, any first time advice or tips

lionheart5656 · 2011-09-08T01:10:50+00:00

First things first, clubs are all about appearances. It's too loud to go in and run game with words. She'll have a hard time hearing you and you will have a hard time hearing her.

With that in mind, dress your best. You don't have to be a fashion guru but if you know you're not good at dressing well, and I mean objectively good at dressing well, ask someone who you know who seems to know how to dress well to help you out.

Being physically fit helps a lot in the club. It's not essential but it makes your life easier.

Since this is your first time, it may be very difficult for you to shrug off your feelings of discomfort. This will come off whenever you talk to someone so long as you are feeling it. When you feel awkward, the other person gets the same feeling. So when you first get in, take your time and get used to the place and the crowd. Don't worry about hitting on women. Relax and get used to the environment.

Once you're used to it, walk around with confidence. Stand up with your back straight and your chin up. Don't be looking down at the floor or up at the celing. Look straight in the direction of whatever interests you and don't flinch because you're a man and everyone will ought to know it just by looking at you. Be confident.

Don't think you are. Know you are.

For the love of god, don't come at a girl from behind and try to dance with her. Everytime a girl talks to me about this she's labels the guy as a creeper. Women don't like being surprised by a stranger. Come at her from an angle she can see you or at the very least, lightly brush her hand before you do anything when coming from behind to let her know you're there. It's still much preferred that you don't come at her from behind.

If you find a girl that seems to like you, feel free to bring her to a remote or quiet part of the club and run normal game from there.

This last point is debatable but I have a general rule of not buying drinks for girls. My rationale being I'm not buying a drink for someone I just met. Maybe if things are going really well I might later in the conversation but 100% not at the beginning. Being a really nice guy by buying drinks is great and all but it won't land you a chick for your bed later that night. If she likes you it won't be the drink you bought her that did it though it might give her the excuse she needs to go home with you later. So never in the beginning and maybe later on.

Hope that helps.

JoeyPockets · 2011-09-08T01:50:48+00:00

Check this out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE

clutchPUA · 2011-09-08T21:21:02+00:00

there hath no shame in the club. just remember, do your approaches like no ones watching...bcuz they aren't.

manonthemoon14 · 2011-09-09T12:04:46+00:00

damm guys the club was sick! got me a bunch of females to dance with me and some #'s. Overall it was awesome, my first time going to the club and using the help with seddit and it worked! lol

2011-09-08T06:39:38+00:00

drink a lot of redbull vodka

also, are y'all getting a table?

Title	Seddit, my first time going to the club, any first time advice or tips
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Date	September 7, 2011 10:21 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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