Dear Seddit,

Right now I am in the process of courting the fourth girl from the same network. They are all foreigners, and they are all pretty hot. The funny thing is, I met them all separately and approached them all separately.

Recently, I met the fourth girl. This is where it gets interesting, because the first three are not directly connected.

This latest girl however, ties the entire group together.

  • She is best friends with the roommate of girl 1 (who is a regular),
  • Is also in the same class as girl 2 (also a regular),
  • and her male best friend is also a close friend to girl 3 (not so regular).

Now, I could really easily invite her to my place and take it from there. I am guessing it is more a matter of "when does it suit me" than anything else, so that's not the issue.

The problem is this:

She does not know about any of the other girls, and none of the other girls know about each other by name (they each know there are other girls, but no names).

If suddenly they all figure out they are fucking the same guy, then shit could really get interesting...

So, what shall I do?

Go for girl #4, risking a potentially massive amount of bad karma on my part, or should I just let her go and avoid the potential conflict?