You all are probably familiar, read or heard about social evolution, but certainly I think one of my problems is that once I read or hear about something, I tend to assume I know it. So I'm just gonna share with you a few bits and bobs about social evolution.

If you go back to what mystery said about tribes and how the human race has advanced and expanded too quickly in order for us really adapt to our social surroundings, I totally agree. We have yet to evolve put of our tribal instincts. Look at your life, generally, you have a "social group" or belong to a particular "group" of people. You gotta look at that as your tribe. When you go out, your tribe is mixing with other tribes. Hence, it's natural go be scared to go approach another tribe. Instinctively they pose a threat. Whereas in reality, they are just as scared of you approaching, because to them, you too pose a threat. Bitch shields, amog etc. Dealing with these problems I think is the first step in successful pick up.

There is much greater choice. In 1950, when my dad was born, there was around 2billion people. Now we are bordering 7billion. That's vast. Which of course means more competition. More competition means that you need to stand out more. Standing out, for example, in a crowd of 150 guys at a club, can be difficult. But through self improvement, and right state of mind can be achieved. Regularly. It's no longer in my eyes, about looks, power, status, whatever. Most important thing is building that emotional bond. Quickly and effectively. That is the biggest hook. However that is not to say go out looking like a bum, and forget about the health/status aspects of your life. They help with the emotional hook.

The way we interact had changed greatly. Face to face interaction is limited to a few areas in our world. We don't get as much practice in the art of conversation as we would have 10-20 years ago. This makes it more important to go out and seek conversation and contact with other people outside your group. It's the only way to achieve what you want. Only way.

Don't be phased. Our flight instinct is stronger than our fight instinct when it comes down to girls. Girls actively seek to challenge you. I've said this before, they are much more adept at conversing, dealing and getting rid of guys. A HB8, has dealt with thousands of attempts. To her you are just another guy, and until you show otherwise, you will be just another guy. They have learnt to deal with chimps, just as we must learn to deal with bitch shields and barriers they put up. I hate to say this, but the same things that attract/turn on your mum/aunt/sister is the same things that will turn on the hot 22 year old at a club. Girls are not snowflakes, as much as they may think.

That will be all for now. As always I look forward to feedback and discussion!