I am sitting in a coffee shop, working, right now. A female came in and we keep giving each other a "look".

congee · 2011-11-29T16:33:18+00:00

well for crying out loud, get up and approach her.

say this:

"Hi, I know this is kind of random, but I thought you were cute and wanted to say 'hi'". [slight pause] What brings you here?"

PAY attention, then continue the conversation.

Don't think. Do it now.

DrDuPont · 2011-11-29T17:19:01+00:00

Go talk to her, ya pussy! If she's not interested, well, she's not interested. But you'll never know if you don't go talk to her! Always assume attraction!

irishbball49 · 2011-11-29T17:48:56+00:00

This happened to me at the pool once. The girl left, and I sat there wondering what would have happened if I said anything.

A month later, she started working the same shift I do. Lucky me. She got my number and I f-closed that night.

So fucking approach her.

2011-11-29T17:53:20+00:00

How do you tell if a girl is giving you the "look" because she is interested or is it because she is wondering why you are looking at her. Thinking "well that guys creepy".

just assume she is interested, what is there to lose?

2011-11-29T18:56:59+00:00

Everyone please downvote posts like these. We need to see ACTION and RESULTS, not mental masturbation.

2011-11-29T16:48:21+00:00

Go up and say Hi. Stand up before you have stopped reading this comment.

Do it now or regret it.

Stand up!

OktopuzZz · 2011-11-29T17:42:35+00:00

Go for it!

mytuppence · 2011-11-29T18:49:30+00:00

This is approach anxiety. No look. -Approach her if she's cute. 1st look - Even better, approach her. 2nd look - Why haven't you approached her yet? 3rd look - Maybe borderline creepy if you haven't been flirting with the eyes. 4th look - I hope you have a good memory and lotion when you add her to the spank bank tonight.

2011-11-30T00:38:22+00:00

You got like 15 to 30 seconds to approach her and start things up.

Just go over and ask an innocent question. "Do we have to bus our own cups here" or something.

Title	I am sitting in a coffee shop, working, right now. A female came in and we keep giving each other a "look".
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Comments	14
Date	November 29, 2011 4:24 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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