Seddit: How the hell do I talk to girls when I'm not gifted with it at all.

rogersp188 · 2011-12-25T06:11:41+00:00

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73553r4c7 · 2011-12-25T09:10:36+00:00

The first part is actually really simple, just talk to girls like they're guys. At first, don't even think of seducing them, just talk about anything you would talk about with a guy. To your surprise, girls won't bite. Then, once you're comfortable talking to girls as well, you can get to the seduction part, which is obviously more complicated - but not your concern right now.

bijibijmak · 2011-12-25T06:14:56+00:00

I can relate almost 100% and I am getting desperate about it. Damn it, I'm 21 and never had a girl friend!!!

Warshredder · 2011-12-25T06:27:49+00:00

You just don't have confidence. When you lack confidence, you get nervous trying to hold a normal conversation with a girl. But when you do have confidence, you feel like the girl needs to impress YOU.

Fix this problem by running, hitting the gym, and/or maybe wearing nicer clothes for starters.

30vanquish · 2011-12-25T10:09:17+00:00

Is the shyness for all women? Start by talking to women you're not attracted to. Practice conversation skills with them (flirting, teasing, etc.) Be creative Look at the environment and comment about it. Comment about your lunch. Ask them about their necklace, scarf, clothing. Ask them directions. Comment about how she's cute and you had to come up to her. Almost anything works if you believe you're awesome and she's lucky that you talked to her.

dWaasBe · 2011-12-25T17:26:00+00:00

Been in that situation as well. What really worked with me is finding some social thing to do that has both guys and girls in them. I work at a youthclub now where a few friends of me were in. Since i have to work with girls as well you'll automaticly start to talk to them as well. Also helps a lot in getting more social since people who come there a lot also start talking to you.

2011-12-25T19:15:07+00:00

It's simply hard to find smart girls who care for such conversations. Do you wanna talk about quantum physics or rub her pussy? If you're a moody guy its easy to change one thing. Look into her eyes all the time. Girls like that. It might sound creepy, but girls like creepy too.

And sounds like you are too hard on yourself. I find it hard to love myself since my parents were assholes and didn't let me hang out with friends. I was socially stunted... But not anymore! Don't call yourself a stupid laser bushel of cornbread, it hurts you more than you think it does.

Oh if you have an accent, it's sexy.

Title	Seddit: How the hell do I talk to girls when I'm not gifted with it at all.
Author	SEDDIT_FUCKER
Upvotes	13
Comments	22
Date	December 25, 2011 6:02 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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