I have realized that since I've been contributing to r/seduction, I haven't once done a post on inner game.

I have come to understand that no matter how much we work on inner-game, there are hurdles that must be crossed before we can be successful. Here's what has worked for me:

  1. Figure out WHY you are here in this community and if your intentions are legitimate. Do some real soul searching and find the answer.

  2. Develop your core values and stick to them. If you stand for nothing, you fall for everything.

  3. Pay close attentions to the thoughts in your head. If you find yourself thinking about misconceptions like "I'm not good enough" or "I can't do this", replace them with positive assertions like "I can do this" and "I have been successful with women in the past, and I will see success in the future". Develop a list of your key assertions.

  4. Release the victim. Not in the sense of engaging in revenge, but understand that nobody owes you anything. Nobody should treat you any differently because of what you have been through. Instead, the "girl who got away" only serves as a stepping stone to your success.

  5. Develop an anti-care defense. If you start to become nostalgic and think about women who are no longer in your life, or who are in your life right now that you are dating, SLAM ON THE BREAKS. Make a mental "screeching" sound in your head and direct your thoughts elsewhere.

  6. Refuse to live in fear of what other people think. Refuse to fear the approach or getting blown out of a set. Refuse to fear rejection. Refuse to fear failure. Refuse to fear a woman's beauty. Refuse to fear the abuse of an insecure AMOG.

  7. Detach yourself from the outcome. Learn how to be totally outcome independent. Let your mind free itself from the outcome. Just learn how to have a good time without adding the uncomfortable notion of a certain outcome must be achieved.

  8. Constantly look within yourself for ways to improve your inner game. Think deep in a quiet place, be patient, and come to your own conclusions. This is how you continue you actively sculpt your inner game.

EDIT: 9. Live in a world of abundance. So a girl flakes on you? Some will, some wont. So what? Who's next?

It's worked wonders for me so far and I hope it helps others.