How do I get over my fear of cold approaching, AA, and the afterthoughts that come with it.

WcO · 2012-01-06T23:05:44+00:00

Your problems will go away if you start approaching. You'll get better calibration and the process will go a lot smoother, and daygame will eventually become a source of positivity rather than fear. Come up some canned opener, like asking for directions or asking if the mall has a jamba juice or something, and use it to just get your toes wet, and then just do it.

30vanquish · 2012-01-07T00:59:46+00:00

Alright. Don't mind the creeper faces the first few times you approach. Don't mind any outcome.

I've done many daytime approaches and what you need to do is stay calm. Turn off all the internal chatter.

Here are some tips:

For the first 50-100 approaches, only approach girls who are alone. Groups can be done but with experience.
"Hi, do you know where [insert store] is?
To cashiers: "Hi, what's your favorite drink? What shirt do you think would look good on me? How's your day going?

Do it anyway. Do you think people ultimate give a damn if something is weird? Even if they do, they'll forget about it quickly. So do it.

ge99 · 2012-01-07T05:33:38+00:00

Just want to point out that you can't say you aren't scared of women and then ay you can't aproach them.

Also obligatory mention of the sidebr which will answer this fairly common question.

Title	How do I get over my fear of cold approaching, AA, and the afterthoughts that come with it.
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Date	January 6, 2012 10:42 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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