I know it's a rookie mistake but I have only recently got back into the game, so I'm kind of rusty. I met a girl at a shop I frequent, chemistry was good, we'd have long engaging conversations. I invited her out once, she flaked said her phone died and her ride was waiting for her but she didn't get the call and they left without her. Was supposed to meet her tonight at a rave, called a few times and it went to voice mail. After that is where my mistake kicked in, where I ended up kinda wandering hoping to run into her or a few other girls I had built a good report with to no avail. Saw an ex more times than I care to see, and another girl whom my wing man actually lost me (he did right by finding her then got so fucked up she wanted nothing to do with us). All that time I could have spent talking to other girls, which is easy at raves (basically the biggest begginer PUA handicap.) By the time I realized this a good chunk of the night went by and most single girls had found their guy for the night, went into a sort of crisis/salvage mode and ended up getting one number of a girl who isn't really my type. Basically lesson learned tonight is not to get tunnel vision on one girl who you have already put time and effort into, if it doesn't seem like its gonna happen move on.