I’m in quite the predicament. Ever since HS I’ve had girls approach me and try to win me over, this is still happening in college. The problem is they are usually 5/10’s. Whenever I try to approach a girl myself(Hb7+) I am usually shot down or they try to make me an orbiter. Don’t girls try to date up? Why would a 5/10 want to date me if I wasn’t substantially better than her? But at the same time a 7/8 won’t even look at me. I feel like I’m in a loop