Ltr is cool with me fucking other women and I have a few questions

CrazyHorseInvincible · 2018-09-12T19:40:30+00:00

Notice that most top-level replies have been [removed]. We don't like it around here when the blind volunteer to lead the blind.

Unless you have done this in an LTR, STFU and learn.

CrazyHorseInvincible · 2018-09-12T17:36:49+00:00

everyone here saying "she will fuck someone else" is speaking from inexperience. don't even read their comments. there is no reason to believe that that is the case, and tons of people get cheated on with monogamy too so how is it any different that a risk remains?

anyways, i do this. fucked like 10 girls the last two years while also keeping an ltr. ltr, to my knowledge, hasn't fucked anyone. i really doubt she has, either.

the easiest way to fuck other girls while with one is tinder, obviously. you can connect with girls that dont know you, invite them over, fuck them, move on. its ideal for this situation.

other places are unshared groups you belong to. so, for me, i game girls in my classes and try to fuck--again, will never get back to LTR.

also you can go out at night to pick up girls, depending what your ltr does at night. recently i've started taking my ltr out and we game girls together at night, yet to succeed in landing a threesome but weve already gotten close and just started last week.

anyways, fuck everyone giving you hate for setting this up. it's hard to manage, but if you can, its ideal. and anyone just saying "she'll cheat on you because of that" hasn't done it themselves because the catch is that, for a girl to let her man fuck other people, she has to see him as very high value and not someone who should be cheated on. branch swing to a more beta male? definitely possible--but cheating is pretty unlikely, assuming youre not beta.

Whisper · 2018-09-12T19:58:15+00:00

how do I manage something like this?

I plan to write an article on this soon. Stay tuned.

Is tinder my best option? I’ve been monogamous for 2 years so it’s been a while since I’ve been out there

In brief:

Be aware that you will have more difficulty picking up than when you are single (unless you lie/omitt, which is an option). Plenty of girls would rather have part of an alpha's attention than all of a beta's, but having to admit that to themselves at the outset can trigger heavy ASD.

Restrict the side girls to being casual hookup stuff until you get your feet wet.

If you decide you want to promote another girl, that's where you really need high-master level game. Girl number one has had plenty of time to get used to the idea, and is typically fine if your control game is good. Girl number two, however, is gonna be a huge handful, because of all the fear, jealousy, envy, guilt, shame, etc.

HurricaneHugues · 2018-09-13T03:21:07+00:00

Shes gonna hang it over your head in a future argument. Life is not that sweet, son.

Title	Ltr is cool with me fucking other women and I have a few questions
Author	Wheresmycake125
Upvotes	8
Comments	17
Date	September 12, 2018 4:52 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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