[16M] First date tips

[deleted] · 2018-09-13T14:38:54+00:00

My goal for the first date is to kiss her

What should I do?

You should kiss her

TheGloriousL · 2018-09-13T15:49:59+00:00

Since you're young and inexperienced, you need to escalate slow and steady until you start to get the hang of it. They key with any and all kino is to own it, no matter how she reacts. If you're confident and own your actions she'll go along with it. Also, do not specifically watch her for her reaction when you do something.

Example, you're walking through a park, you're looking forward, grab her hand and give it a light squeeze and keep looking forward. You should be able to gauge her reaction via if she squeezes your hand back (good sign, proceed) or tenses up (not necessarily bad, she could be just as awkward and inexperienced as you are) or pulls her hand away (bad sign, re-calibrate).

The first few times you start kino escalation will feel awkward and robotic as fuck, but when it goes right your body will reward you with a nice, little high.

Also, if you don't get the kiss on this first date, don't kick yourself. I recently went out with a chick on a first date and didn't even land a kiss. She still had a good time and agreed to meet up again. Fucked her on the second date. Sometimes the right circumstance doesn't present itself.

graszitrone · 2018-09-13T22:36:28+00:00

Remind yourself constantly: 'I'm here with talking to her, I'm enough.' Confidence is always attractive. Go out there and have a good time.

DetroitGangster · 2018-09-13T15:05:19+00:00

If you are inexperienced, go into this with a "fuck it" attitude. Be confident, pass her shit tests, tease her, escalate physically. Do not put her on a pedestal. Look at this as a potential learning experience to use as leverage for future dates. You will do fine homie.

Nib-q · 2018-09-13T14:48:13+00:00

Tease her and be genuine. Strong eye contact before the kiss.

_thechinaman_ · 2018-09-13T14:32:55+00:00

It looks like you just said what you are going to do.

rad_dynamic · 2018-09-13T22:09:59+00:00

remember the girl is also inexperienced. as long as you don't say anything stupid and build basic attraction you will kill it.

Don't over complicate it, a date is to find out whether or not YOU LIKE HER AND WANT TO FUCK HER. Your date mindset shouldn't be "I need to prove myself to this girl!"

RylanBlackwood · 2018-09-13T15:34:35+00:00

What I tend to do is sneakily move closer. Like I'll pretend to be moving in my seat and oh look our heads are magically closer. Then I'll put my arm on the sofa behind her (try get the comfy sofas in the cafe). I'll tickle her shoulders lightly with my fingers. Then move to her neck. Then mebe soft massaging. Legs closer together. Then you kind of just move in slowly, good eye contact and smiling and giggling typical nervous shit just laugh it off and kiss. Sometimes girls pull away, sometimes they come to you slowly sometimes they just jump you and yank your neck. You won't know until you try just crack on.

Title	[16M] First date tips
Author	123undeuxtrois123
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	September 13, 2018 2:31 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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