I've been on a few dates with this girl (I think 4 now) and we've slept together twice (once at my place, once at her place). She's refused sex but has given me handjobs and blowjobs. She's approaching the wall (although she still looks hot) so I think she's getting to that point where she wants to lock someone in for a relationship.

Here's the odd part though: the handjobs and blowjobs have been the worst I've ever had in my life. She said sex is a big deal to her and she doesn't have it casually. While normally I'd never believe that, her terrible sexual skill makes it plausible. She's also told me she's attracted to me many times but just wants to wait more...

So what's the right move here? I still have other plates, so it's not as if this is my only source of sex. I really do enjoy her company and she is hot, but I'm starting to wonder if the opportunity cost of hanging out with her is worth it. To be fair, I'm only spending a few hours a date with her, but that time could be spent gaming other girls.