Ok, I was in this town on the west coast, and met this woman in a club who was hanging out with a bunch of friends. She's easily an 8. Let's call her HBrunette. Tall, brunette, great face. I approached the group, said hi to everybody, told her that she had nice dancing moves, and then ask the ugliest girl where she was from. She said she was from Arizona, stuttering hard. It was clearly a speech impediment, so I play it cool, say "yeah, Arizona!" and keep dancing with everyone. At some point, HBrunette is making small talk with me, and I started dancing just with her. Things are going well... lots of kino, and I star giving her small kisses on her cheeks, subtly approaching her lips more and more.

That's when she drops the bomb and says "I have a girlfriend", to which I reply "that's cool. I like dancing with you". She smiles, we keep dancing, and then I told her "hey, you shouldn't ditch your friends like that! Go dance with them" She smiles, and leaves.

Towards the end of the night, she comes to me, asks me to dance more, and we do. The club is about to close, and I asked for her number. She complied. Then I'm about to give her a hug, but she leaned for the kiss. I decided to "make myself interesting", avoided the kiss smiling and went for the hug.

After that, it was text messaging back and forth for several days. I asked to hang out a couple of times, to which she always had an excuse. Fine. Finally, she had some time and we went for dinner once, and a movie. Nothing exciting happened that night. I had to build the rapport from scratch, so no kissing or anything.

After that, more text messaging. My attempts for a second date went futile. At some point, my messages went unanswered. Let me clarify that my communication was kept to a minimum, trying to appear casual and non-needy. I texted her every two or three days, etc.

In the end, I gave up. I deleted her number and moved on.

Well, what do you, know. I stumbled upon her once more at some other club. I said hi, she appeared glad to see me, told her "anyway, I just wanted to say hi.. keep hanging out with your friends, have fun!" And so, she complied. Then, as the night progressed, I was having the time of my life, dancing my ass off, having a blast with my buddies, etc. And again she came to me and said "ok, let's dance!" Puzzled, I start dancing with her. Gosh, what a beautiful body. Nice to the touch. I tried to kiss her again, being very subtle, with small pecks on her cheeks or neck. She giggles, saying that I'm funny or sweet, etc. Then, she bounced, "I'll go back to my friends", to which I said "Cool! Nice dancing with you".

At this point, I thought "meh, she just wanted validation from a male". And decided to forget about her once and for all.

Now, today I got a text from her, saying that she'll have a long weekend, and that we should do something together. Again, I'm puzzled. Why does she keep doing this? I told her that, maybe... maaaybe, we can hang out if I have some free time (she knows I work hard, from our previous text chats). She replied that she was looking forward to the prospect of hanging out together.

She clearly knows I'm interested, and knows that I'll attempt something at the smallest opportunity. Do you think I got a chance here? And yes, she's definitely a lesbian (if not bi). I can confirm this. I don't normally hit on lesbians, but man, this one is smoking hot everywhere you see her. Maybe I'm just wasting my time. Sigh

Is she just playing with me? Am I "her girlfriend"? Maybe I'm asking the wrong questions, (how about "have you ever had any success with a lesbian?") but I would still like to hear from you guys.

Thank you for your input.