Kill Beatrice - an article I think everyone on seddit needs to read

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-03-24T23:24:55+00:00

I absolutely agree with this article. It says that if you're looking to use seduction techniques to get a specific girl, any girl, you have already failed.

People come in here to seddit time after time and declare their one-itis, and ask how to get that girl. The answer is, you spend weeks and months practicing these methods so you have the skills to attract any girl. Oops, too late, you should have started weeks and months ago. She's not going to wait.

Or we get the question I hate the most, they have learned a few methods and got a girl attracted, what am I going to do now? Well, what you're going to do now is fail, and learn from the experience, and move on.

Both of these questions indicate you have already failed. If you could succeed at either of these tasks, you would not have needed to ask the question.

We had a debate about this question months and months ago here in seddit. Should we be mean to people and tell them the truth? Or should we cater to their beta wishes? Well, we can't just deliver the brutal honest answer all the time. People aren't ready to hear it.

But the fact is, seddit, and the seduction community in general, is not designed to get you that one girl. We couldn't, even if we tried. The methods are intended to help you learn to get girls, in general. Until you get a broader perspective, any girl you manage to hook is going to look like the one to you. Until you learn you have choices, you will take the easy way out. You will focus on one girl, and you will fail.

jewfro667 · 2012-03-25T15:42:20+00:00

What about if you don't get oneitises but just like a certain girl more than others? Because that's something that usually always happens to me, like I flirt with girls, get numbers, but there's always one that I like more than any of them. I wouldn't necessarily call that a oneitis. I'm actually experiencing that right now in fact, and I may be in the friendzone (or at least close to it) and I don't even believe in the friendzone.

Title	Kill Beatrice - an article I think everyone on seddit needs to read
Author	vj88
Upvotes	11
Comments	5
Date	March 24, 2012 10:42 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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