After lurking here for about a month, I can say I've pretty much grown into myself quite a bit! I always thought I was decent looking, ate right, was happy with my body, etc. But I would always tense up when talking to women and what not feel awkward. I'm from Armenian ethnicity, so even though I am fluent in English, I still had a hint of an accent when speaking. This always terrified me and made me insecure. Now, I've leaned to use it to my advantage, and be proud of it and noticed a complete 180 when approaching. Chicks kinda dig it now.

Anyways, so I approached this sexy creature a few days ago while on a smoke break at work (she does not work with me), got her number and went out for a few drinks the next day! (strike while the iron is hot!)

After a few hours of talking and having drinks, we went out for a smoke. I just held her from her hips and kissed her- it was so perfect!

Kissing got heated, and I said "let's get a room". She said "I donno, this is our first date, bla bla", so I offered to go to my car. More kissing ensued in the car, and it got a little wild. I'll spare the details,but after a while, she actually asked me to get a room.

To the room we go; start kissing, touching, etc..

Once I put the rubber on I notice I go a bit soft. I panic and it makes it worse! She understood, and I told her I may have had too much to drink + nerves. So we hang out, take a shower, and I was back in business.

Seems like a happy story, but I'm scarred now! I worry this will happen again, but I know that I shouldn't panic like this.

Please share similar stories, and how you overcame it. I worry I'll have the same issues next time.

Thanks guys!