How far do you put up with flakiness? I'm in need of some guidance.

2012-04-19T15:19:26+00:00

You may have pushed too hard at this point, looked too eager. I recommend you do ignore her. You've got to build more comfort with her. That means running into her in class or at a party, flirt, and then walk away. Don't bring up another date for a while. Then a few weeks in, after at least 5 or 6 flirt sessions, pull out the, "Hey weren't you supposed to take me out? I'm sorry I must've flaked"

Edit: Not to pimp my blog- but have you read this yet? http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/sg36n/why_girls_flake_and_the_longgame/

mrlogjam · 2012-04-19T15:25:13+00:00

Stick to your principals. Always try and have a mentality of abundance. I know it's hard to feel this way when you're young and stuck around the same batch of girls.

Don't call, text or leave anymore messages. She will call back if she wants. Move on.

stevieg213 · 2012-04-19T17:13:21+00:00

First off how old is this chick? A lot of times it seems younger attractive girls will be interested in you and 5 other dudes on the side. This could be for of a lot of reasons. One, maybe she doesn't know what she wants and likes keeping her options open. Perhaps she is scared to get serious because you are in the same class. Or maybe she is just a bitch leading you on but knowing in the end it will be never result to anything. I'd say play it cool until the class is over and then confront her about it. Don't make shit awkward in class, that is the worst.

rmbarnes · 2012-04-19T20:45:11+00:00

I wouldn't bother with a girl who flaked on me three times, unless she was willing to come straight round to my flat, maybe.

2012-04-19T17:05:18+00:00

You say you like her and you don't have oneitis.. But the fact you say she's cool and girlfriend worthy makes me think you are - however subtly - treating her different. Treat her like all other bitches

Title	How far do you put up with flakiness? I'm in need of some guidance.
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Date	April 19, 2012 3:09 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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