Two Big Elephant in the Room, and no one wants to talk about them

Cousin_of_Aesthetics · 2012-04-26T08:07:27+00:00

I see the point the speaker is trying to make, but I think he misses the point entirely. Most dating advice programs are designed for AFC's frustrated enough to Pay money for dating advice. What are the qualities of these AFC's usually?

1) Fear of society's disapproval 2) Insecure about themselves

The Coach's job first and foremost is to break those barriers or at least clear them out temporarily. Otherwise the AFC will feel very awkward and judged.

So thats why I think people say that looks dont matter or you can do whatever the fuck you want. Hearing those phrases gets you in state and motivated, and ultimately more willing to pay attention and cooperate with the pua.

SegaTakai · 2012-04-26T10:58:36+00:00

This guy is a tool. People tell him he's an idiot and suddenly the "commercial dating industry" is conspiring against him. Except for the five people he pulled quotes from.

SeekingAlpha · 2012-04-26T14:32:52+00:00

Wow. This guy is a terrible writer.

graffiti81 · 2012-04-26T13:59:23+00:00

Not familiar with this particular guru, but i haven't seen him do any sets, so i don't know what caliber of game he has.

Two Points: 1) Looks don't matter. I'm a good looking dude, but my mentor is an ugly fucking dude. It's all about self perception. If you think you're ugly then you are and vise versa. If you really want to build self esteem and create an outlook of "i'm fucking sexy" then get invested in your look. Go to the gym, work on your skin, and max out your sexiness factor. Simply moving in that direct will help your game, and certainly your self esteem. Also, daily affirmations would help as well.

2) Cold Approach is the MOST effective way to meet women, but shouldn't be the only way. It's easy to indentify the guys that are okay at game. Simply remove them from their environment (night, day, gym, social event, etc.) and brace for chaos. The goal is to embrace the uninhibited approach. I'm a man, she's a woman ... it's natural for me to approach and move the relationship toward sex.

And yes, the commercial dating industry sucks. Ask to see video before you embrace advice. Like this video:

(pualive)[http://pualive.com]

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-04-26T21:28:23+00:00

tl;dr: When asked why he robbed banks, Dillinger replied, "Because that's where the money is."

Title	Two Big Elephant in the Room, and no one wants to talk about them
Author	iamsetsuna
Upvotes	7
Comments	13
Date	April 26, 2012 7:46 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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