I'm a 24 year old college senior with a Monday thru Friday job. I’m a motivated, adventurous, friendly person and I can easily make people laugh. I've always been a leader in my social circles and an alpha male type (high school athlete, very large frame) in all areas except when it came to women, where I’ve fallen into One-Itis EVERY single time, like clockwork. I've always put women on the pedestal, even before getting laid. This has landed me in numerous friend zones and a few un-healthy, one-sided relationships. I've never had a one-night stand (at least not in the 'met you at the bar took you home and fucked you' sense or anything close). I have severe AA.

Recently i realized I had feelings for a girl, started texting her, showing IOI’s and generally doing pretty well as far as I can tell, had a few fun nights with her and she showed interest. One night I got too drunk at her house to drive and she took initiative and we had sex. My instincts (These need work) kicked in and it felt like the start of a relationship - even though she made it clear that wasn't what she wanted. I started waiting by my phone for her texts, making everything way too easy, paying for everything, etc. I started staying the night at her place and vise versa after we'd mess around. Eventually the PDA\relationship –type behaviors that were going on got to be too much for her and everything officially got weird. We had a "talk" where she explained that she just wanted to be friends. It bothered me a lot and I lied and told her I understood and that I was OK with it. I asked her to come hang out during the following week. I told her i had the house to myself and we hooked up and everything pretty much has gone back to the way it was before the talk and now I realize that I am being an AFC all over again even after the talk.

Then today I had my first epiphany. I discovered Seddit. I've never needed it worse. I’m now a student of The Game.

I’ve spent about three hours reading the sidebar and all of the links within since i discovered it and my mind is blown. My frustration, insecurities, and uncertainty relating to my recent situation described above are mostly all gone. I realize what I need to do and that's deal with my confidence\appearance (weight, fashion), AA, and focus on talking to every girl in sight rather than drinking and partying so hard.

THANK YOU, Seddit.

Feel free to ask me any questions or toss me any advice. Shower me with wisdom!