I've hung around naturals and players, I've watched them in action, and as much as I have learned there is one thing that they (and some of you) are able to do that I still don't understand and have been unable to do.

I have had girls want to get with me in the past, based on obvious signs. I can ignore some girls completely for days but they won't give up trying to get my attention, some girls will push and shove and make some excuse to touch me. I figure basically the girl is into you once you can ignore her and she refuses to allow this and tries to pull your attention often

I can do this. He can do this. Most of us can do this. But...

If I don't make a move on that girl in a few days, it suddenly goes from hot to cold. From constantly trying to pull my attention to not even seeking it. In some rare cases, this doesn't happen, but usually the same girl that blew up my phone for a week straight stops making any effort to talk to me. I'd usually be fine with this, because it's during that week or so where the girl is really interested that I pull them in and see if they're relationship material.

But for some guys, my friend Matt being an example, this doesn't happen. Girls start to like him, and fucking love him for the rest of forever. Basically any girl in this area considers Matt someone they would go out with the second he asked, at all times

He has this complete abundance, at any point he can pull one of these girls.

I'll say this: He's decently good looking. But he's no Brad Pitt. I'll also say this: I really like this guy too, he seems like a great person to be around and he is clearly a social animal in that he can jump into any group and everyone crowds around him. Even myself

I know a lot of other guys like this. Where I can have a girl into me but lose interest if I decide I don't want to make a move, these guys don't make any moves but the girls keep them locked away in a corner of their heads as permanently appealing

I consider their status my goal. And yet I really don't see any stepping stones towards it, I don't see what they're doing differently that keeps girls strung. What makes it possible that they can attract girls at all times, rather than attract "targets" for a little while