I'm REALLY short. Seddit, please help me.

BFG_MP · 2012-05-21T12:13:57+00:00

i think the key to dealing with things like being short or going bald or any other thing that might make you feel self conscious is to just own it. embrace your shortness and maybe crack a joke about it too... its uncomfortable to hang out with some one who is obviously self conscious about, in your case, their height. so if some one tries to get under your skin about your height play it off, own it, and make a joke about it. women like confidence and men who are trying to fuck with you might lay off with the alpha male bullshit because he thinks you're funny.

plushsicle · 2012-05-21T09:01:02+00:00

Tyler Durden (RSD) is slightly short (5'7" or 5'8"?). Better than advice, maybe watch some of his videos for inspiration? He very often gets girls taller than him (as well as quips about his height).

AintGottaClu2Give · 2012-05-22T06:21:24+00:00

You just have to ask yourself: What would Tyrion Lannister do?

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-05-21T17:06:47+00:00

For every body type, there is someone who lusts for it.

I'll tell you a weird story. One day my girlfriend's sister came to visit. She had a horrible yappy dog (I hate dogs) about 2 feet tall. I asked her, "what kind of dog is that? It looks like a Great Dane puppy." She said, "Oh no, it's 5 years old. It's a cross of a Great Dane and a Chihuahua." I was stunned and blurted out "How did that happen?" She said, "We don't know. Our mom owned a Great Dane and a Chihuahua." I was about to ask more, but I decided not to press the point. Her sister, my girlfriend, is 4'9" and 90 pounds, I am 6'2" and 230 pounds.

AlphaLeMagnetWarrior · 2012-05-21T16:00:24+00:00

Simple. Build up vey other area of physical attraction. Teeth, body, hair, clothes. If you build them up enough, girls won't even think about your height. And even I'd girls do think about our height, there is a less chance that they will care since they will see you as attractive. You can also try to go for shorter girls

salem2474 · 2012-05-22T04:14:30+00:00

I'm 5'6'', doesn't seem to be a big issue.

Mind you, 5'6'', handsome, lean and muscular. And confident.

Probably, if I were 6'3'' plus all the rest, I'd do even better. But I find that if I'm as tall as the girl or taller it's not at all an issue. You get to look into their eyes. 5'4'' still gets you at eye level with most girls. And slightly taller girls aren't usually an issue either.

Just learn, deeply inside, to truly not care about it. Act like they ought to be with you. Then they won't care either.

thespacebaronmonkey · 2012-05-22T13:46:45+00:00

Here, have some inspiration. Embrace the ugly things in life, don't strive for being perfect. Be nasty.

xStagief · 2012-05-21T17:28:38+00:00

Although your height might be seen as negative on a first look, I think that you can get around it. My good friend's boyfriend is a very short guy as well. However, he more than makes up for this with his personality. As is said a lot around here, looks is just one part of the equation and your height is just one part of the looks.

Title	I'm REALLY short. Seddit, please help me.
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Date	May 21, 2012 8:37 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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