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[–][deleted] 35 points36 points37 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She led it way more than you did.
[–]grohlbarkermescudi 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That conversation was too casual. I loved it
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How would you rate her though? Looks wise
[–]Rockyrambo 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Uhhh...the pic?
[–]puaCurveBall 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Personally, I stick by a "setup date within 2-3 messages" on okc, but I do realize this is chat.
How long was conversation going before this snippet?
I've had more than a couple instantly sexual okc chats (given my profile, heh), but rarely do they pan out, either from girls just looking to dirty chat and not meet up, or from girls that meetup but have social problems that cause them to sexually chat strangers up on the internet.
Every good okc hookup I've had came from a couple messages back and forth, and got sexual in person.
In any case, good job with conversation and getting the girl!
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[–]puaCurveBall 6 points7 points8 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Different strokes for different folks, but I could never manage to find time for OKC if I had to go 2-3 days of messages.
[–]uberafc 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
would you approach getting things sexual in person in the same way? same type of conversations or innuendos?
[–]puaCurveBall 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't think it is needed... dirty chatting is done because you can't actually physically get together.
I'd rather pull the girl in and makeout than beat around the bush with innuendos about food.
Granted, it is good to have sexual tension which can happen through conversation, but realistically it doesn't need to be prolonged when you can reach out and touch her (so to speak)
[–]rmbarnes 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
From online dating on POF, I agree with all of this.
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