How to make the best out of your teens?

CalvinRichland · 2018-09-19T18:28:32+00:00

Study hard, lift hard, avoid video games and drugs. Get a good amount of sleep.

SlappaDaBayssMon · 2018-09-19T19:45:59+00:00

I'm 30.

If I could go back and do it all over I would.

I fucked off school, I partied a lot, I focused zero effort on my future.

I had a LOT of fun, made a bunch of friends, and did okay with girls.

However, I could've done all that and focused on myself primarily at the same time.

I promise you, if you focus on your studies, plan for the future and stick to it, lift, and stay active in positive activities (sports, arts, music, literally anything that interests you and has a "club") there will still be plenty of time to goof around and have fun.

Also, the girls will come to you if you do this, there will be no chase.

Don't be me and wake up at 26 realizing you haven't started yournlife yet.

Governor_Humphries · 2018-09-19T19:03:57+00:00

In addition, should I also try to live my current life carefree , fuck around like a whore and take as many virginities as possible or should I rather invest the majority of my time into my future career but therefore miss out on opportunities in highschool?

Why not both? Guys your age overestimate the time commitment involved in pulling girls.

What does it take, five minutes to flirt and get a girl's number? Three texts to set up a date. At this point you've committed ten minutes of your day maximum. 2-5 hours a week for dates on Friday and Saturday night when you'd be goofing off anyway is not going to keep you from reaching your life goals.

Don't prioritize girls, but don't be afraid to talk to them either. And then don't sweat it when they say no or flake or waste your time. But there will be girls who don't do those things, and you will be very happy to have experiences with them.

Rogdozz · 2018-09-19T19:56:08+00:00

Just approach women. Start by taking any opportunity you can to start conversations with strangers just for the sake of having a conversation, you‘ll get used to it quickly. Don’t give a fuck about their age, they’re just humans and will want to fuck someone they’re attracted to, regardless of age.

Also i don’t know which grade you’re at, but if you’re in 10th grade and expecting to do your Abitur, use the amount of time you have now. 11th and 12th grade at a Gymnasium is difficult, you‘ll have a harder time keeping up with your schedule.

ShotgunTRP · 2018-09-19T20:04:57+00:00

Plan how you’re going to make as much money as possible between 19-29

This should be your priority

boy_named_su · 2018-09-19T20:42:25+00:00

Try many, many things. To see what you like, and what you're good at. Then you have lots of time to polish

Sports, hobbies, academic disciplines, arts

Title	How to make the best out of your teens?
Author	TuanDavidNguyen
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	September 19, 2018 6:27 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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