Went to a party last night, met 2 girls . . . . How do I let her know that I want to see her again without actually being to weird? About it

DrZolu · 2012-07-23T04:58:39+00:00

shes under 18 leave it bro. from a legal stand point walk away.

HERE_HAVE_SOME_AIDS · 2012-07-23T05:18:37+00:00

Yes, it sounds like J wanted you to get close to her; stop messaging the girl for a few days; keep J on the slow boil while you develop some prospects during your first few months at college!

sedditpro · 2012-07-23T08:48:56+00:00

Teenage dynamics are very different from adult dynamics and very different than the environment I was in as a teen, but this:

I messaged J and said " hey, next time you and your friend are down you should stop by the house again some time, nothing serious." . . . I messaged it to her when she was offline, so I havent received a reply yet.

This looks like you put the ball in her court. That's kinda passive. I wouldn't do that. Don't be passive. Be assertive and get her (whoever that is, J or S) to come out with a concrete plan. Don't worry if they don't like you and you're asking them to come out. Why not find that out now instead of agonizing over whether they like you or not for 2 weeks.

puaCurveBall · 2012-07-23T15:30:21+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many sidebar guides.

Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

Title	Went to a party last night, met 2 girls . . . . How do I let her know that I want to see her again without actually being to weird? About it
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Date	July 23, 2012 4:51 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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