advice for calling first

punkrkr27 · 2012-07-31T14:25:35+00:00

You are on the right path. It's perfectly ok to call her first. As long as you are relaxed and comfortable with your speech it demonstrates that you take initiative and are a leader. If she doesn't answer, simply leave a message like, "Hey, it's Bob! Let's grab drinks this week. Call me. Later!" If she doesn't call back, she flaked, who cares, move on. It's as simple as that. Any more over thinking of it. Calling multiple times, etc. just demonstrates neediness.

puaCurveBall · 2012-07-31T15:12:24+00:00

All of the successful PUA I know agree that they are the ones initiating about 99% of the time.

This is a bit different if you have been hooking up with the girl 5+ times, it should fall to about 50/50, but starting out you need to take the lead.

choc_is_back · 2012-07-31T15:31:31+00:00

Don't worry, guy calling first is how the game is played.

If it's not the first date, I always try to agree on a next meeting at the end of the previous one though, I don't like all that arranging from a distance.

Majek1990 · 2012-07-31T16:34:29+00:00

wow thanks for the feedback guys, I appreciate every one of your answers. Now i will try once more and if i fail i will just move on! Kudos Seddit!

leodoestheopposite · 2012-08-04T04:01:04+00:00

calling girls to hook up? Yes you have to make the first step, the first call.

Unless you are so good at having girls call you to hook up with you; in which case do a [FR] post and share what you do, how you do it.

Title	advice for calling first
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Upvotes	6
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Date	July 31, 2012 12:28 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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