I have had this particular plate for a year, we have used condoms since day one and I never have gone raw once in my life with anyone.

I bring up the topic of condomless anal with her from time to time because it turns us on. I tell her I am thinking about trying it with her, as we always talk about it but never have done it. She says she will do it, i say it might be too risky and i have to think about it, she then says i am the only guy she is seeing (awalt) and that she trusts me to not use condoms with her. I recently saw her full std panel last week and every single thing is negative from herpes to chlamydia........etc.

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I am only willing to do this if I am the only guy she is fucking (yes I know she can go behind my back). How do I go about setting the ground rules for telling her I am only willing to do it if I am the only guy you are seeing? I have one other plate right now but I think she is breaking as she keeps flaking. And another one who I see about once a month.

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our relationship started as me verbally telling her I am only interested in being an fwb, Early on she asked me If I ever date and I said im not looking for that. She has never asked me to become exclusive with her or even hinted at it. Honestly she is average looking probably a 5.5(wouldn't show my friends or family her) but I enjoy her company and she does anything I say in bed. my SMV is way above hers, and I am a top 10% looks wise male, so she might be scared of losing me if she ever asked to become exclusive?

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I do unprotected oral with her, my risk of stds from oral would be the same from unprotected anal I assume because chlamydia herpes etc can be in the mouth too.

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