I want to get a friend laid but he doesn't like physical contact, any suggestions?

Twatless · 2012-07-31T03:19:11+00:00

You can lead a horse to water but you can't force them to drink.

Did he ask for your help? If not, let it be... this has bitten me in the ass too many times.

2012-07-31T03:53:55+00:00

Stop trying to get your friend laid and focus on your own game. He won't get laid until he wants to work on his own issues, which I'm guessing he doesn't want to.

sedditpro · 2012-07-31T06:56:41+00:00

Look bro, I know the feeling. Part of you wants to help from an altruistic viewpoint of "Let's get everyone (or at least all my buddies) laid!" and part of you is more ego-driven "Once he realizes that my advice got him laid he'll be beholden to me!"

Truth is, a lot of this stuff is not only red pill, but also something you realize you have to get to yourself. You have to know that you're ready to go down the rabbit hole, not knowing where you'll end up. You could get rejected a 1000 times, or you could get laid off your first opener. But you have to accept that this stuff could probably work, in order to begin the journey.

When someone has a phobia of touching, that means he's probably an anti-social shut-in (no offense) and it'll take a long time for him to get comfortable enough around girls to open, make conversation, and make a move on one. So he's on the 1000 rejections side of the spectrum.

When you try to get him into this stuff and he's not ready, guess what - your friendship is the one at stake. Anti-social guys are also the ones who are likely to blame you for whatever bad shit happens when he tries out the jealous girlfriend opener or whatever, and shut you out to assuage their feelings of inadequateness.

In short, check your intentions and then tell him about it, let him read this stuff on his own. EDIT: Also, how white knight is he? Can you make a rape joke around him?

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-07-31T11:55:37+00:00

You can't help him. He must want to change. The problem here is that he doesn't want physical contact. That is a signal he is uncomfortable with intimacy. How the hell is he going to stick his dick in a woman without touching her?

Twatless · 2012-07-31T14:31:41+00:00

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Title	I want to get a friend laid but he doesn't like physical contact, any suggestions?
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Date	July 31, 2012 3:09 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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