I’m fresh out of a 12 year marriage. RP journey started about a year ago. Everything in my life has played out as per side bar, and I’m enjoying MY LIFE.

Question: I have currently 4 or 5 plates. One of them we fucked on the second date. Was some of the funnest sex ive ever had. I know she had a good time too. She’s a smoker but wants to quit. So sensing she likes a challenge i offered to do anything she wants as long as it doesn’t involve a plane getting there if she stops smoking for the entire duration of my upcoming shift (16 days away). She agreed and enjoyed the challenge.

I did this for many reasons:

•get her working toward a goal for me •easy way to game and stay connected while away •give her feelz - something to fantasize about while I’m gone •be different

It was working until the last weekish. I want to bang this plate again, plus she knows what’s up as I’ve already laid out the boundaries. I seem to be the one initiating all the texts - every 3-4 days - we usually just banter over text, but I’m getting the vibe to next her. I don’t want to hard next as it won’t work on this broad. How should I proceed?